Five Secrets of Finding Love For The Second Time
The one you loved the most is gone; left you with broken heart and damaged trust; whether it was tragic end or mutual understanding, it is inevitable to avoid the feelings of being lost and hopeless when you say goodbye to your first love. You are isolating yourself from others and ignoring the advice of friends and family but one day you will realize it is time to pick up yourself and welcome love for the second time in your life. The following suggestions will help you to achieve that:
1. Allow yourself time to heal
You cannot build a strong house on a scattered ground; give yourself some time to over come both emotional and physical damage from last relationship before moving on to a new one. Jumping into another relationship may sound like the best way to forget what happened but unbalanced mind can affect your decision to choose the right person.
2. Leave the past in the past
You might find it tempting to stock your ex on Facebook or Twitter to see if he/she has moved on but if you hang onto your past you may not treat your future one right and it is not fair to the person who wants to be with you. So try to resist the feeling and tell yourself that you and your past partner no longer share a life together and what he/she is up to is none of your business.
3. Don't compare it with your first love
No two people are exactly the same but it is unavoidable that you will compare this new person in your life with the one you were used to be with for a long time. You might find some habits of him/her odd and unfamiliar;
1. Allow yourself time to heal
You cannot build a strong house on a scattered ground; give yourself some time to over come both emotional and physical damage from last relationship before moving on to a new one. Jumping into another relationship may sound like the best way to forget what happened but unbalanced mind can affect your decision to choose the right person.
2. Leave the past in the past
You might find it tempting to stock your ex on Facebook or Twitter to see if he/she has moved on but if you hang onto your past you may not treat your future one right and it is not fair to the person who wants to be with you. So try to resist the feeling and tell yourself that you and your past partner no longer share a life together and what he/she is up to is none of your business.
3. Don't compare it with your first love
No two people are exactly the same but it is unavoidable that you will compare this new person in your life with the one you were used to be with for a long time. You might find some habits of him/her odd and unfamiliar;